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Whether you’re just beginning your divorce process or dealing with issues after divorce, Better Apart Divorce Strategy Coaching with Gabrielle Hartley will help move you and your family forward.  Gabrielle offers a high-end, non-toxic, human approach to your divorce AND, maybe even more importantly, to your life. Divorce strategy coaching is really the best way to keep you from having an expensive divorce. You will make better decisions right from the first session.  Divorce coaching with Gabrielle will give you tools to move forward so that you feel ready to take on your finances after divorce, navigate co-parenting and address your personal wellness.  While strategic divorce consulting is not inexpensive, in the long-run it can prevent you from having a costly divorce. While we cannot guarantee that you will feel no pain, frustration or grief throughout the process, we can guarantee that by engaging in this process, you will handed tools that can take you and your family forward in a better position long after the divorce is done.

Gabrielle will help you navigate the murky waters of divorce, no matter what your unique circumstance is:

  • You may be just starting your divorce and are looking for guidance
  • You may need smart strategy through and beyond the process
  • You may be looking for assistance making wise financial choices
  • You may want to avoid a costly divorce
  • You may be looking for creative co-parenting strategies, and alternatives
  • You may be just about to wrap up an agreement and have some lingering, gnawing questions that you want to ask a friend but don’t know who to turn to
  • You may have been divorced for years and have some ongoing need for divorce strategy
  • You may be looking for a tips to keep your divorce out of court
  • You may be trying to figure out how to change your dynamic so that you can truly become Better Apart.

Whatever the case may be, Better Apart Strategic Divorce Coaching with Gabrielle is here for you!



Each package starts with a full one-hour in-depth introductory life scrub meeting (phone or video conference).


Then, we have follow-ups on a weekly basis which are shorter more targeted sessions
to address each piece of your pie (as well as ongoing emails as issues arise if applicable in your offering.)   


You will make better, more strategic choices through your divorce and shift your internal narrative. You will feel more in control of your life, your post divorce finances and your custody arrangement. 

While the services are not inexpensive,  and while we are not mental health practitioners  or working as your lawyer (be sure to have local counsel represent you in your divorce!),  by re-focusing your approach and internal framework for your divorce, you may actually save thousands of dollars in legal fees, therapy bills (for you and your kids!) and hours and hours of lost night sleep by going through our very specific Better Apart process.

Are you ready to take the anger, chaos, rage, sadness, betrayal, and confusion of divorce and turn it on its head through developing personal patience, respect, peace, clarity and forgiveness?

Then let’s chat.


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Gabrielle Hartley with Elena Brower

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— Gwyneth Paltrow, New York Times Bestselling Author and Founder of GOOP


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DISCLAIMER: The commentary, advice, and opinions from Gabrielle Hartley are for informational purposes only and not for the purpose of providing legal advice or mental health services. You should contact an attorney and/or mental health professional in your state to obtain advice with respect to any particular issue or problem. 


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