GABRIELLE HARTLEY, ESQ.

NATIONAL ONLINE MEDIATOR
NEW YORK & MASSACHUSSETTS DIVORCE ATTORNEY

Divorce can be messy,
but it doesn’t need to be.

RESOLVES 99% OF HER CASES OUT OF COURT

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THE BETTER APART® METHOD

The Better Apart® Method is a mediation practice developed by Gabrielle after more than 25 years as a divorce professional.

Using the Better Apart® Method, Gabrielle can help you:

  • Separate compassionately
  • Navigate your divorce sensibly and efficiently
  • Reach a reasonable resolution

GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE CAN BE MESSY, DIFFICULT, AND EXHAUSTING.

    Working with Gabrielle will make it easier — she keeps 99% of her cases at the resolution table.

      GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE CAN BE MESSY, DIFFICULT, AND EXHAUSTING.

        Working with Gabrielle will make it easier — she keeps 99% of her cases at the resolution table.

          ARE YOU A DIVORCE PROFESSIONAL?

            Fall in love with your divorce practice. Level up with the Better Apart® Total Practice Makeover™ and Online Certification

              ARE YOU A DIVORCE PROFESSIONAL?

                Fall in love with your divorce practice. Level up with the Better Apart® Total Practice Makeover™ and Online Certification

                  WANT GABRIELLE
                  TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT?

                    She is available for keynotes, press, workshop, and panel.

                      WANT GABRIELLE TO SPEAK AT YOUR EVENT?

                        She is available for keynotes, press, workshop, and panel.

                          TESTIMONIALS

                          Gabrielle is an incredible asset to the legal community. Her approach to mediation and the collaborative process provides an alternative path for people who want to resolve their differences. Attorney Hartley is sensitive to the delicate issues which often arise during mediations. She has a unique ability to allow each side to express their feelings and desires while maintaining a level of respect for the process and the other party. This approach ultimately defuses conflict and leads to resolution, which is the ultimate goal for any attorney working with parties in the family court setting.

                          H. W.

                          Gabrielle is definitely straight and to the point. No beating around the bush… She gets the job done with a compassionate heart and takes care of her client well! She is extremely knowledgeable in her trade and definitely uses it to her and her clients advantage. I have and will recommend her to people who need her experise.

                          S. G.

                          Gabrielle Hartley is a lifesaver! If you want to be heard, get practical, straightforward solutions to all of your family/marital legal issues, look no further than Ms. Hartley. She is plain speaking, gets to the point and adeptly assists at bringing closure and oftentimes peace to tumultuous situations. Highly highly recommend!! She is the BEST!

                          P. L.

                          As a divorce attorney and mediator myself, I can highly recommend Gabrielle Hartley to help you with your divorce and family law matters. Gabrielle is a compassionate and experienced advocate and neutral who will help you to navigate your divorce or separation in a holistic and respectful manner.

                          Susan Guthrie

                          Gabrielle Hartley helped me to find clarity and with her teachings, I was able to shift my career into a more positive experience. Now, I am looking forward to my future as a family law practitioner and a strong believer in the “better apart” method of Gabrielle Hartley.

                          I do not have enough words to thank her and to express what a great investment this course was for my career. I am looking forward to the next course she had to offer!

                          V. P.

                          Gabriella (sic) was a lifesaver in my divorce process. She is incredibly knowledgable, supportive, and available. She was creative and thoughtful in coming up with solutions that worked for everyone. I truly feel I made the right decision in working with her and would recommend her to anyone without hesitation.

                          A. G. C.

                          BETTER APART

                          The Radically Positive Way to Separate

                          Gabrielle Hartley with Elena Brower

                          Available on Amazon

                          “Potent, accessible tools for your family and your future.”
                          — Gwyneth Paltrow, New York Times Bestselling Author and Founder of GOOP

                          BETTER APART

                          The Radically Positive Way to Separate

                          Gabrielle Hartley with Elena Brower

                          Available on Amazon

                          “Potent, accessible tools for your family and your future.”
                          — Gwyneth Paltrow, New York Times Bestselling Author and Founder of GOOP

                          TESTIMONIALS

                          Better Apart is a great book to navigate life and infuse it with balance and calm. While happily married myself, I have recommended Gabrielle’s book to many friends going through the hardship of divorce. I have also had occasion to refer Gabrielle to friends going through divorce. Her thoughtful demeanor and vast expertise make her a great choice during difficult times.

                          A. T.

                          When I first met Gabrielle, I was immediately drawn to both her powerful positive energy and quick witted intelligence. Dedicated to making divorce a better process she has created methods and tools that are relevant for the era we are living in today. Blending her knowledge of the law with a spiritual flair she has uncovered and discovered a modern twist on how to make seperation a journey of moving forward and never looking back. Her book, Better Apart; The Radically Positive Way to Separate, clearly represents her passion to offer brilliant content and forward thinking methods, on how to live happily while navigating a divorce.

                          P. F.

                          Potent, accessible tools for you and your family.

                          Gwyneth Paltrow
                          New York Times Bestselling Author, Actress and Founder of GOOP

                          Better Apart is my top recommendation for anyone who is wrestling with the “divorce” question but feeling shame or fear around it.

                          Gabrielle sets out a do-able approach to not just survive divorce – but thrive emotionally, financially and spiritually in life after separation. Her thoughtful but practical book lays out a roadmap for using “crisis” as a unique opportunity for mindful living and personal growth. An amicable divorce truly is possible and Gabrielle lays out the steps to get there without sacrificing your well-being.

                          Erin Levine, Esq.
                          CFLS, CEO of Hello Divorce and Levine Family Law Group

                          Think of it as the “conscious uncoupling” how-to.

                          People Magazine

                          Gabrielle has always been practical and straightforward in her approach to solving problems. She is, in her practice, as her book recommends you find for yourself, an intelligent, adaptable, savvy and a strong negotiator. 

                          Through her thoughtful lens as a veteran experienced attorney/ mediator Gabrielle offers insights that will support you divorcing in a graceful manner. The information and tips in this book are invaluable to people thinking about divorcing.

                          Ken Potash Esq,
                          Partner, Perelmutter, Potash and Ginzberg, P.C. Seymour, CT

                          Addressing the practical, emotional, and spiritual, Better Apart is a major paradigm shifter.

                          As a child of divorce, the lessons within this book resonated deeply with me and I’m hopeful for the future of separating families who’ll have access to this wisdom.

                          Kate Northrup
                           Bestselling author of Money: A Love Story

                          TESTIMONIALS

                          I had the pleasure of meeting Gabrielle during her “Secret Sauce” live course. She is such an innovative, creative professional full of inspiring ideas on how to – not only grow a practice – but reinvent a career that brings peace to you AND your clients. I recommend Gabrielle Hartley and her Better Apart Method to divorce professionals and those considering or already navigating the divorce process.

                          J. A. R.

                          Gabrielle Hartley helped me to find clarity and with her teachings, I was able to shift my career into a more positive experience. Now, I am looking forward to my future as a family law practitioner and a strong believer in the “better apart” method of Gabrielle Hartley.

                          I do not have enough words to thank her and to express what a great investment this course was for my career. I am looking forward to the next course she had to offer!

                          V. P.

                          “Gabrielle gave me great tips and talking points to use with clients that are really helpful to manage expectations. She also provides a tool box and an easy to convert checklist for keeping your client’s case on track. This applies to whether I am doing mediation, consulting, or full representation.”

                          Chelsea Pagan
                          Attorney, Mediator

                          As a divorce professional passionate about changing the way individuals experience divorce, The Better Apart Method Basic Certification is a welcome addition to my tool box. Some of the benefits of the program include the opportunity to connect with other positive minded divorce professionals, get expert tips for handling difficult cases, and gain insight into the divorce process from a seasoned professional. Gabrielle offers three levels of divorce coaching. If you are looking for business building tips, Gabrielle also offers a 1 hour masterclass where she shares her secrets for attracting your dream clients.

                          S. F.

                          A leader of the positive divorce movement. The Better Apart Certification has helped me grow my client base and given me the tools necessary to help my existing clients in new ways.

                          P. D.

                          TESTIMONIALS

                          Gabrielle made herself available [to us] to at a pivotal moment in my client’s divorce negotiations several times over the period of three intense days. Her attention to the couple’s needs, paired with her amazing rapport swith the clients, did the trick! A very contentious case that was headed to a multi-day trial was resolved. Gabrielle has what it takes in these complex cases to get to the heart of the problem, quickly. Will definitely refer to her in the future!

                          L. K.

                          Working with Gabrielle for our divorce was done in a timely fashion. Also, worked well with us an coming to an agreement that works for both of us!

                          K. C.

                          Gabriella (sic) was a lifesaver in my divorce process. She is incredibly knowledgable, supportive, and available. She was creative and thoughtful in coming up with solutions that worked for everyone. I truly feel I made the right decision in working with her and would recommend her to anyone without hesitation.

                          A. G . C.

                          A great mediation and divorce attorney. Gabrielle walked me through each step of my separation agreement with clarity and confidence. I would definitely recommend Gabrielle to anyone seeking representation during divorce mediation.

                          C.

                          TESTIMONIALS

                          “”Gabrielle Hartley is an energetic and motivational speaker who informed and inspired attendees at our annual conference about client care and self care related to divorce mediation. Attendees enjoyed her session and suggested we bring her back for a future event. As an event planner, I also appreciate Gabrielle’s professionalism as we prepared for the conference. Gabrielle met deadlines and was truly vested in making sure that she delivered for our attendees and the organization.”

                          Patty Murray
                          Executive Director of the NYSCDM

                          “”Gabrielle is full of verve, spirit and tenacity as she is leading a change in the conversation around divorce by building a positive and empowering environment for women to be strong, confident and fearless. I have seen Gab energize a room full of women and motivate them as she shares her insights and tips on how to be “better apart” and the “best you ever”. Gab is true to her word, vivacious, fun and trustworthy, she fills a room with her energy and sincere smile. I know that when she says she will do something, like a best friend, she will go above and beyond to make it happen.”

                          Judy Herbst
                          Director of PR & Partnerships, Worthy.com

                          TESTIMONIALS

                          “Gabrielle gave me great tips and talking points to use with clients that are really helpful to manage expectations. She also provides a tool box and an easy to convert checklist for keeping your client’s case on track. This applies to whether I am doing mediation, consulting, or full representation.”
                          – Chelsea Pagan, attorney, mediator

                          “I took Gabrielle’s course, and it was such a great experience not just professionally but personally. She took the time to explain and teach me her  “Better Apart® Method.” She was a teacher, but more than anything she motivated me to believe in me as a mediator. Gabrielle supported me and guided me to build what I now consider my path in life. From day one, she believed in me and shared her experience with me. Because of her, I decided that mediation was the end goal for my profession. Her “Better Apart® Method” changed my practice, impacted my clients in a positive way, but most importantly changed me personally. I teach the Better Apart® method every opportunity I have- to my clients, my friends, my kids, my partner. It was a life-changing experience. Thank you, Gabrielle.”
                          – Vanessa Peakes, attorney, mediator

                          “Gabrielle did a great job distinguishing between reflecting/hearing and “siding with a party.  The example of how she handles this while working in a mediation was very helpful. Any lawyer or mediator that wants to jump start a new practice or reform an old one NEEDS to do this!  Working with Gabrielle gave me the push I needed to bring my new practice to life!
                          Kary Watson, attorney, mediator, Togetheryoupart.com

                          As a seasoned mediator, working with Gabrielle has helped me deepen and improve my practice so I am more fully supporting clients as they move through one of the most difficult events of their lives. Gabrielle has decades of experiences to share and is a skilled teacher and coach making her Better Apart certification program of the highest quality. I recommend it for folks who are new to mediation as well as those of us who have been around a while. The insight I have gained is invaluable to improving my practice.
                          – Tracy Gould Sheinin, Clarity Mediation

                          Potent, accessible tools for you and your family.

                          New York Times Bestselling Author, Actress and Founder of GOOP

                          Better Apart is my top recommendation for anyone who is wrestling with the “divorce” question but feeling shame or fear around it.

                          Gabrielle sets out a do-able approach to not just survive divorce – but thrive emotionally, financially and spiritually in life after separation. Her thoughtful but practical book lays out a roadmap for using “crisis” as a unique opportunity for mindful living and personal growth. An amicable divorce truly is possible and Gabrielle lays out the steps to get there without sacrificing your well-being.

                          Erin Levine, Esq. CFLS, CEO of Hello Divorce and Levine Family Law Group

                          Think of it as the “conscious uncoupling” how-to.

                          People Magazine

                          Gabrielle has always been practical and straightforward in her approach to solving problems. She is, in her practice, as her book recommends you find for yourself, an intelligent, adaptable, savvy and a strong negotiator. 

                          Through her thoughtful lens as a veteran experienced attorney/ mediator Gabrielle offers insights that will support you divorcing in a graceful manner. The information and tips in this book are invaluable to people thinking about divorcing.

                          Ken Potash Esq, Partner, Perelmutter, Potash and Ginzberg, P.C. Seymour, CT

                          Addressing the practical, emotional, and spiritual, Better Apart is a major paradigm shifter.

                          As a child of divorce, the lessons within this book resonated deeply with me and I’m hopeful for the future of separating families who’ll have access to this wisdom.

                          Kate Northrup, Bestselling author of Money: A Love Story

                           

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                          CONTACT GABRIELLE

                          NORTHAMPTON ADDRESS: 76 Masonic Street, Northampton, MA 01060

                          NYC ADDRESS: 150 East 52nd Street, Suite 1002, New York NY 10022

                          STATEN ISLAND ADDRESS: One Edgewater Plaza Suite 304, Staten Island, NY 10305

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